I have been married to my husband for nine years and he just refuse to go and even look for work. He believe in a business that has never paid the rent puts chicken necks, chicken liver, and a tin of fish with pap on table. He is form Zambia. Is it a culteral thing. I am coming from a back ground where our believes are very strong and dont believe in divorce. I am a working mother and have two beautifull daughters with him whom i must support. I buy their clothes feed them pay the school fees and bought also a care recently to take them around. I feel like i am going out of my mind. We met in church where we started as a ministry couple but i am so backliden because of what he is doing to me and my children. I have no where else to go when i want to leave him. I was thinking of getting myself a sugar daddy to help me to go bye. But is it a solution to the problem. What must i do with man. every time he gets a place for us them we are being kicked out because he cant pay the rent. We have just moved into a very nice place but where is the rent money going to come form. If there is anyone that can help with some advice please respond.

Firstly I am a girl, 15 yrs old and gay. I am out to five of my closest friends and they have all been awesome. One of them always slips when talking about me being gay when people are around and after wards she says she thought they knew. That’s not the problem though.

Now two of my guy friends know i have a secret because she let it slip and so they keep asking me what it is. She keeps telling me i should tell them and that they have a right to know and that it shouldn’t matter because she thinks they wont care etc. She sees no reason why I shouldn’t tell them and keeps shoving her opinion in my face saying its right for them to know. My best friend(gay guy) talked to her saying that I or he shouldn’t have to come out and that it is none of their business yet she still wont change her mind.

Me saying that I dont want doesn’t seem to be good enough for her, I should be able to come out to people how/when I want right? I’m fine if she has an opinion but in the end its my decision. I’m worried she will out me by accident.

So help on telling her why I dont want to? others opinions?

Sorry for it being so long, its just really pissing me off.

My bf and I have been dating for a year and are long distance so we have marathon sex sessions when I visit. The sex itself is pretty good, but I’m just not in the mood when we start having it b/c he just gets right to business. I’ve asked him for foreplay before but he’s so impatient! Even when I go down on him he never returns the favor in any way. How do I teach him/get him to do what I want and be more considerate of MY pleasure?

This has been on my mind for the past week.. what’s the lifestyle of an actor/actress like? Before this i couldn’t give a crap about celebrities and actors but there’s one actress that really touched me, i.e. AnnaSophia Robb. Her movies are just so sincere and sweet, and at the same time heartbreaking. Her performance in Sleepwalking and Bridge to Terabithia had such a great emotional weight. The latter even made me break down in tears (i’m an 18 year old guy btw) and wonder about the brevity of life. I guess it’s the way i could relate to her, her sincerity and her drive to help people and she’s so close to my age.

This left me wondering about what the lifestyle of an actor/actress would be like? Is it chaotic or relaxing, fun or depressing? I think it’s great to be able to travel the world and meet so many people. I do know the realities of the acting business though, like how only 2% of that profession earn enough to put food on their table. But at the same time I know how satisfying it is to be able to work out your passion in the arts.

Could someone tell me the downsides of the profession and how it’s like to be in that field? Such as auditions and stuff… I just want to know the realities of it. I always liked a profession that lets you use your creativity and serves as an emotional outlet, but are you really comfortable doing it when you have so many people watching you as you’re doing it(film crew, etc). Not to mention the lack of personal life that follows due to paparazzi. Does it rob you of some part of your life that you would have if you hadn’t gotten into it? Is the profession as great as people make it to be?
Just to add a little bit of info about myself, when I was younger I wanted to become a vet, then a surgeon (people have said i was good with my hands), then an environmentalist (cause people are basically raping mother earth). I like to go for things out of the norm so i didn’t want to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer. RIght now i’m in university going for an actuarial science major and music minor (i love music and i’m in a band) but i’m having second thoughts. I really want to go around the world helping people and do volunteer work. I was thinking of maybe doing this on-off thing of working one year and doing volunteer work the next. I know that’s not really possible and it would just piss off my boss, but that’s what i want to do. The reason for that is there’s nothing that hurts me more than the thought of us living the comfortable life when there are millions of people who never had the chance to experience even a fraction of the luxuries we have. After all life is short, we live work and die. There must be more meaning to it

Sorry for the randomness of my questions but i had to get these thoughts out of my mind. I would really appreciate it if someone in the acting business could give me some insight into that profession especially the bad sides that most people don’t know. I’m open minded so go ahead and say anything you like, as long as it’s honest. also is there a community program in Canada that sends you to different parts of the world and pays for your food,lodging,flight etc? Thanks a lot

hi want to know what profession suits me job or business. my dob 22/02/1974, 13:00, @Visakhapatnam, AP. I am currently doing a job and like to start my own business let me know if i can and what type of business suits me

should I join the military? I also thought about law enforcement. Possibly fbi. I’m in college right now. Should I join the airforce? Wouldn’t that hinder me from getting into

I’m thinking of getting into a career into radio broadcasting, photography, movie critic, food critic, or music (judge producer, guitarist, drummer). I plan to move to California to purse that. I would like to do some acting but I don’t want to make it a career. I’m not 100 sure if that’s what I want to do. So wouldn’t joining the airforce or navy reserve HINDER me from getting big in those fields? I want to start a business too. I’m worried about RAPE in the miliary. YOU have to share a bedroom with a stranger.
usmc but a lot of those fields require going to california almost

I’m looking for colleges to go to on the east coast that offer architecture and business. I would also like to find a school that can help me be a film director. My grades are like B’s and C’s. Any suggestions.

THANK YOU

Okay i want to know what has netapp done that would be considered unethical for a businesses.

I tried to sell some dresses little by little at swap meet. But still need sale permit. All dresses are new. Wedding, evening, prom, kids dresses, kids tux, accessories, shoes(dyeable). What should I do? Please help me!!!
I did post them on Craigslist with pictures, did not work well.