Problem 1:
This is my business, she is my mother, i have to deal with her everyday.
She left her facebook page open when she went to the restroom and I wanted to google something so i clicked on her page to open a new tab and 1 new im. So out of nosiness i read it. I wish i hadn’t. So I got on my laptop and logged into her account [I have her password so I can feed her fish when she is at work] this is exactly what the chat said:
NAMES CHANGED FOR SAFETY REASONS
Mom
r u there
Dude
yes im back and forth you ok,i left this morning before you sent me a message
Mom
i’m okay i’ve been working every day
I’ve been called in which is overtime
Dude
ok good,i was expectinto take time off,but it may be a few weeks before i go home.
Mom
which we can use at christmas time
Dude
over time means money time…….
Mom
before you go home? where are you at
Dude
yes your right,im at the office,slow week,weather wise.
i had t ogo out this morning ,but other than that we have not worked on the projectthis week.
besides work you doing ok.
is he gone or is he there with you .
Mom
gone
and the freaking computer signs off like when I type something and then it signs me off
Dude
ok good can i still stuff your stocking
Dude
dont know yet, im waiting until i go home ok
your right it may be awhile
Mom
why do you keep saying waiting till you go home where are you
are you working out of town
would you like me to like your Candy cane
Dude
yes, i mworking in ferriday ,but when i get off during the week,i can get away alot better.
Mom
you can get off alot better doing what?:)
Dude
off of work and at the house during the holidays,or there after.
Mom
I’m playing w/you
Dude
i know i love your replys
you may be rigth,it may be too busy a time ,but hopefully we can work something out soon.
Mom
do you want me to lick your big candy or what? no response
Dude
i told you yes,i like that.sounds great ,is that what you want to do.
Dude
tell me what is on your mind.
Mom
I guess that would be good right before you stuff my stocking
Dude
yes sounds goodtogether ,cant wait,what about you
Mom
I need to do something, I most likely going to go take a shower in a minute and use the shower head
Water pressure great invention
Dude
ok do you need to go ,your right ,want me to join u.you can go take a shower,and catc hme later if you need to.
Mom
look if I could take you w/me we would already be there but if you would like I include you on my thoughts
Dude
i know your right,i just wish we could gettogether sooner ,rather than later,but it is a busy time.ok i will seattle for that today ,but please think aboutme.
Mom
I’ll be creative
Dude
ok keep me in mind ,do you need to go now.
Mom
my job is calling me again
omg
Dude
ok go if you need to ,ttyl ok
Dude
i need t o go do some thigns any way ,catc hyou later.
they want stop
Mom
have a good day
I’ll try to catch you after shower time
I don’t know what to do, I can’t confront her
People who know:
Me
My Bestfriend
My Sister
Problem 2:
Cutting/Selfharm
I started when I found out about Problem 1.
I need to stop but I cant’t i love it.
I am addicted to it.
People who know:
Me and My Bestfriend
Problem 3:
The want to get high/drunk.
I have recently been wanting to get high or drunk lately.
I haven’t done it I just really want to.
I want to stop the want to.
People who know:
Me and My Bestfriend
Problem 4:
Every once in a while my mom will get mad and call me a cxnt/bxtch/whxre/fxck up.
Or If she is mad at my sister she will pull her up by her shirt and yell at her.
I just really need help.
People who know:
Me
My Sister
My Bestfriend
My Dad
THESE ARE NOT OPTIONS
1.Calling cops
2.Confronting
3.Telling my step dad.
4.Telling my mom
Thanks for reading.